*Please Share* Your Bedwetting Stories Here (2024)

Hello All,

Well for me my wetting problems started when I was 13. My parents had just recently divorced, my ADHD was playing it's part, my PTSD was a problem but yet hadn't gotten way out of control (that wouldn't happen till I was 17) and the nightmares were causing bed wetting due to being purely scared pee-less. And the last issue was the physical abuse going on at the time from my dad who was a abusive drunk, by bullies at school and by the special education staff. Anyway, the wetting started out shortly after my dad got his own apartment and custody of me and my brother. It started out only 1-3 times a week. But soon it was every day. At first I was just washing my clothes in the washer we had in our apartment. So I was able to keep it secret as my dad worked a lot so I was often left home alone. I would have told my parents, but I was terrified of being hit and punished over it. My brother was punished with diapers and hit for his bed wetting till he was 9. So I didn't want any of that. So I decided to keep it secret.

After 6 months or so of daily washing of sheets I was in the dollar store getting some soda and happened to walk down the baby isle toward the front of the store and noticed diapers. I decided to give them a shot. They were extra large toddler diapers. I got home and found they just barely fit me. But because of how cheap they were, I would have to get up in the middle of the night to change them as they wouldn't hold up all night in the same diaper. And at 4 for a dollar, they were something I could afford. But as I said, I was afraid of my dad finding out. He found one diaper once and called me into the living room. He was screaming at me "I better not find another fu***ing diaper. I am NOT raising another fu***ing baby!". He threw the diaper into the trash can and sent me to bed. So I continued to wear diapers in secret.

My mom got custody though when I was 16 and things got more difficult. She was around home more so I had to get smart at sneaking diapers in and out. I only got caught a hand full of times. We were living in a small motel room so wasn't a huge supply of hiding places. There was a large room, a kitchen and a bathroom. So since the bathroom had a window I would hang a plastic bag with a diaper in it off a nail and then when I went in the house I would open the window, pull in the bag and hide the diapers in the bathroom. I would put a diaper on right before getting into bed and in the morning would stash the wet diapers till I got home from school. Then I would hang the wet diaper out the window in a bag, and swap the wet diaper with a clean one and swap them out later. It worked well for the most part.

But as I said, my mom caught me a few times finding diapers in the bathroom and threatening "if I EVER find diapers again, I am going to throw them on the front lawn and tell everyone their yours!". It just made me work better at hiding my diapers. And the need for them picked up shortly later when during a incident of abuse I was left paralyzed. I regained the ability to walk, but was left with nerve damage causing severe pain and made the wetting much worse. Not to mention the abuse worst of the abuse went on from age 16-18 which caused the PTSD that I was able to handle and made it 10 times worse and along with the nerve damage the nightmares also did it's part to make the wetting worse.

Then in early 2000 (age 20/21) I began having trouble with day time wetting accidents. What started out as small accidents once in awhile and urgency soon was daily accidents leaving me with no choice but to go to wearing diapers during the day too. And at this point, still living at home I couldn't hide the diaper use anymore and broke it to my mom what the diapers have been around since I was 13.

She thought I just had a diaper fetish. She didn't know I was having wetting problems. And she at one time thought I was faking bed wetting to justify wearing diapers until she saw the prescription for the diapers from the doctor, which you can't get without having a legit wetting issue. Since then, I have been in diapers 24/7. And as the years have passed I have continued to lose bladder control. And as of last year decided to say screw up and went fully urinary diaper dependent. In all, it was only one-two more diaper changes per day to go fully urinary diaper dependent. So wasn't a huge change to my daily system of diapering. And so kind of a long story, that's been my basic history/battle with bed wetting.

-Stanley